One the day a boy name AKMAL KHAMIS was borned…..
Yesterday, after surveying Shah Alam project as usual, me, my sister and my husband went for Wonder Milk cupcakes for his besday cake. Since I don’t have enough time to buy him a cake nor ask my godmother to prepare a delicious cake for him.
Luckily when we arrive there, the shop is still open and still serving variety of chocolate cupcakes with extraordinary filling. Piewwwwhhh….my inner self start to calmed. Guilty almost hung my neck when I saw the clock when we left Shah Alam 30 minutes ago. Ya lah….takkan besday husband tak celebrate…kecik hati
So I asked the besday boy to choose his selection of cupcakes and we got 10 delicious, irresistible cupcakes including my sister selection also. Like her besday kan. So I went to the counter to settle the bill. I opened my wallet and what a surprise…. only RM30 available. Adeiiiii malunyer nak suruh besday boy bayar….. dah la besday kena bayar lagik….
So I buat muka putih(our beloved lazy fat cat), awakkkkkk……tulun byr dulu nanti saya ganti. Adeiiii tebalnyer pipi tak terkira…. Nasib baik my hubby jenis yang tak kisah… rasanyer kalu hubby org lain mesti dah membebel punya.. So he settle the bill. About RM55.90 including candle and chocolate cookies my sister pilih.
So we went to my auntie condo at pelangi utama, behind sri pentas damansara utama. We decided to have the celebration over there since our niece Fatin besday is coming also on Saturday. So two aries with same chinese horoscope Rooster are celebrating together. Akmal pon dah anggap Fatin cam anak sendiri.
Sampai…sampai, langkah kanan betul kiterorg bertiga. My auntie masak nasi minyak (my hubby fav), ayam rendang,sambal sotong and also kerabu mangga muda (my fav ketika mengandung). Apa lagi, my hubby dengan muka berseri-seri amik pinggan kat dapur terus cedok nasi minyak. Sebelum memulakan mission dia, I said to him, u have to blow ur candle first then u can eat ur nasi minyak. Mcm mengarah anak kecik pulak. So dia dengan muka seposen, put aside the dishes and help me lighting the candle.
So 28 candle been lighted and blew. Congratulation Mr. Hubby, u r now officially 28 years old! Tapi yang tak best nyer our niece Fatin siap tutup telinga dengan mata masa my hubby tiup candle… haih kenapa pulak la mcm tuh. My auntie said… nie org darat nih…(berkecai la cik noor ko nyer plan nak buat besday party).
So me, my sister, my auntie and her second baby Qaseh pon serbu for the cupcakes and finally got caught in high sugar condition…..8 cupcakes finished within a second. 2 cupcakes being kept for my uncle. Hadiah dari Akmal kerana menghabiskan setengah periuk nasi minyak. hehehehehehe
After tersadai lebey kurang 4 hours atas sofa panjang my auntie, we went back dengan muka pemalas n mengantuk. Peyut sudah kenyang, mata dah berat….adeiiiiii kenapalah gombak n damansara sungguh jauh.
So after get ourselves clean, both of us climb up into our bed and we chat a bit. Suddenly, I feel so guilty when I looked into his face for not giving any present to my hubby. I know that he wanted a new handphone since his current handphone layak buang tong sampah ajer. But I couldn’t. Since baby is coming in June. We need to saved money as much as we could. Cot tak beli lagi, susu, lampin, bath tub dia, changing closet dia… huhuhuu I start to freak out.
I started to cried and feel so depressed. Orang mengandung nih senang kena emotional swing. So my hubby urut belakang badan I and said everything will be okay.. he said “baby rayyan tak perlukan fancy cot, dia perlukan belaian awak sebagai seorg mama and maner tahu baby rayyan tak nak tido kat dlm baby cot dia nak tido dekat dengan mama dan babah dia” after saying that he kissed my forehead. Lagi sekali rasa guilty. Malam besday dia lak nangeh… cam dak kecik.
Then after crying crying sad sad….me tido in my hubby hug. I know this will definately sparks worry in my hubby mind but me cannot help it. My only hope is GOD.
Nite nite everyone….

March 28th, 2009 at 2:17 pm
Tak kisah takder cake janji ada si busuk.
April 15th, 2009 at 2:21 am
oh dear.. don’t worry to much about the prep for ur newborn. i got 2 daughters, one year apart.. we were so poor when the 1st were born in 2004, hubby keje at trgnu n I was in KL.. semua ala kadar jer – cheap milk powder, diapers, clothes and baby stuffs.. 2nd one came the next year (2005), took a challenge and went to US when she was 3 mths old and got stranded with no fund for almost 6 months, hubby got to work 3 measly jobs at the same time. We survived with poor family coupons for the States. Got back to Malaysia in 2007 without money n I started selling perfume and stuffs (as u may have seen in my website). Alhamdulillah, the girls are big and healthy now (top in their kindergarten classes) and we already have a semi-D home in Nilai of our own.
Insyaallah, everything will be fine. Have faith and strive to be a wonderful mom you have always imagine.
April 15th, 2009 at 6:30 am
Your story really gimme me semangat n inspire me to work more harder. May be becoz i’m not working and hubby is working alone make me craving for ambitious things. Hope after giving birth I will start again what ever that I have left before. My wedding planner biz n Baby furniture business.
Hope can see u one day.U r a strong woman!