Mrs’ Diary…

150 days approximately a baby boy named Muhammad Rayyan Harris Bin Akmal was born and that’s mean its been 150 days I have been full time mother, caring for my baby, dedicated my whole life to him. Alhamdullilah, the task that I borne had been fullfill even though I kinda regret not to have breastfeed him.

Too many memories that when I looked behind, I feel sad and missed those things. Woke up in the middle of the nite with my ceaserean fresh wound, massage him, put him near to me and hug him. Those memories cant be exchange with whole life treassure.

Muhammad Rayyan Harris were the joy of our life. His smile, his laugh, his look and his beautiful and charming eyes will calm people who looks at him. He love to play hide n seek, jumping with him jumperoo, being tickle by his Tok Mama, talking to his Tok Babah, try to roll over but can’t because his belly to big ) (Little Boyot we called him) and make baby babling sound when you don’t to look or talk to him.

At his four month age, rapid development we saw on him. He started to hold heavy things, try to get up to sit, not really demand for his pacifier, no bad colic, started on his first solid food (Heinz baby food for 4 month), roll forward n back and clever to take people heart by being so ‘manja’. What he will do is put his head on people shoulder and smile…and when we sit him up at our belly facing other people, he will turn his head to see us just to get confirmation wheter his mom, dad or anyone who holds him still with him.

At four month he able to :

Baby Rayyan tummy time...

Abis meja billard auntie ann dia jadi mangsa keganasan rumah tangga. Hot Spot Baby Rayyan untuk bergolek since lantai tak cukup besar. ekekekeke

Pantang nampak tangan Babah dia...sure nak gigit

Since masuk minggu pertama 4 bulan, Baby Rayyan dah pandai nak mengigit benda. Mungkin sebab gusi dia gatal kot. Nak nak lagi pantang tengok tangan babah dia atau jari kita. Abis digomol nya, kesannyer pipi dia abis merah sebab bekas air liur. Dah bawa ke pedi dia…pedi dia kata don’t worry just keep cleaning. Permainan rattle dia lepas satu2 dia baling bila dia dah bosan. Nih sekrang kiteorg  cuba lamaze nyer rattle. Sebab banyak activity sikit…so tahan la satu permainan satu bulan.

Si Baby Flinston yang tembam

Akhirnya termakbul jugak permintaan Tok Babah dia untuk buat toncet utk si Baby Rayyan nih. Tengah bersiap2 nak pergi ke JJ Setiawangsa, terjumpa pulak ikat rambut bentuk candy yang beli kat Jakarta hari tuh dalam beg. Yerlah ingat nak dapat baby girl, siap beli mcm barang accesories lagi. Last2 dapat baby lelaki so accesories tuh mak dia lah yang pakai. Muka si Baby Rayyan nih dah sah sah macam perempuan. Di tambah dengan toncet sulung dia tuh… confirm cam baby Flinston. Apa2pun this is my fav picture.

Baby Rayyan with his auntie...Cik Rania

Baru-baru nih Cik Noor ader buat open house secara kecil2an untuk kiteorg adik-beradik plus hubby. Anak dia Cik Rania dah pon mencecah umur 2 bulan lebey. Alhamdullilah semuanyer ok… cuma Cik Rania nih suka menangeh…tak pasal2 mesti besar jek mulut dia melalak. Yang si Rayyan nih pulak biler Rania menangeh… dia siap pandang2 lagi lepas tuh amik tangan Rania dan masukkan ke mulut. Nasib baik tak de gigi lagik… kalu ader gigi abis kot tangan Cik Rania kiter nanti. Baby Rayyan dalam gambar nih cam Hulk Hogan…

Baby Rayyan jadi hantu siang...

Kalu tengok gambar nih mesti teringat zaman baby dulu, sebab arwah nenek saya suka jugak menempel bedak sejuk kat muka kiteorg. Kata dia jadi awet muda ekekekke. Kalu si Baby Rayyan nih pulak, tampal bedak sejuk bukan aper tapi nak hilangkan jerawat aka ruam susu dia. Sebab bedak sejuk nih resipi dari generasi ke generasi. Sesiapa ader jerawat pakai, sure besok gerenti hilang. Sejak arwah nenek meninggal tak der siapa dah yang reti buat bedak sejuk nih.

Baju melayu siap dengan sampin

Semua orang dok sibuk sarung baju raya, Baby Rayyan tak ketinggalan jugak menyarungkan buat pertama kali baju melayu siap dengan sampin. Ala2 johorian gitu cara pemakaian dia. Handsome tuh dia pakai baju melayu. Bak kata by brother yang jadi fashion designer, orang melayu kalu pakai baju kurung dengan baju melayu..seburuk mana pon muka mesti cantik. Tapi kalu mat saleh, secantik mana pon mesti nampak pelik. Well, tak tahu lah betul ker idak tapi my baby look macho and gorgeous. Dont u think so?

Baby Rayyan dan babah dia tengah khusyuk membaca Endgaget

Si Akmal kita nih fav dia ialah baca Goggle Reader n Engadget. So, dia nak anak dia sekali ikut tabiat dia. Siap cakap lagi umur Baby Rayyan setahun dia nak hadiahkan laptop. huhuhuhuhuu tuhlah kalu bapak dah minat tech dengan gadget jawabnyer anak pon ikut sama. Tapi Baby Rayyan pon satu jenis suka tengok barang2 yang tech jugak. Bapak dia layan laptop, dia leh duduk diam sambil tengok, kekdang kiteorg layan tv series, Baby Rayyan join kat tengah2. Kekadang tuh tunjuk gak gambar dia kat iphone saya, punyalah over excited. Haih, kuah asam pedas tumpah ke nasi jugaklah.

Baby Rayyan first day outing with high chair

Sekarang Baby Rayyan dah besar. Dah leh duduk kat high chair dah. Tapi high chair ikea nih kena ader bantal utk support belakang sebab tak padding. Kalu mcm kat rumah nyer, Chicco nyer brand tuh dia memang ader extra padding dengan adjustable position. Alhamdullilah, dia tak meragas semasa duduk tup. Cuma kena kasi mainan dia kalu tak, dia membebel jek…

To Be Continue….

Hai there,

Kali nih nak cuba masuk contest yang blog2 semua anjurkan. Biler dah jadi housewife sepenuh masa…inilah kerja2 nyer. Hopefully dpt hadiah yang best )

Semua org ckp….muka me n hubby look the same. Mcm adik beradik…ader ker. Warna kulit kot yang sama. Apa2pun biar orang judge whether betul atau tidak. Kalu tanya diri sendiri mesti sampai sekarang tak dpt jawapannyer.

Masa tengah surf baju raya rayyan. Termasuk pulak satu blog nih http://miezaniera.blogspot.com/2009/08/contest-pasangan-seirasopened.html buat contest utk pasangan seiras. Jadi nih nak mencuba nasib lah. Contest tuh bermula dari 25 Ogos 2009 sampai 4 sept 2009. Leh submit sampai kul 5 ptg the max.

So inilah gambar saya n suami. Yang terselit sikit tuh gambar Baby Rayyan kami….

Nama : Nor Lidya Wati Nasir

Nama pasangan : Akmal Khamis

Me, Hubby n Baby Rayyan

Me n Hubby

Tukang Kaco tuh

Me n Hubby to be

Baby Rayyan Cukur Jambul & Aqiqah EventTwo days before giving birth

So berdasarkan gambar2 yang diberi…ader tak persamaan antara kami berdua?

Untill we meet again

Lydia

Dah lama dah sebenarnyer planning nak buat stories abt three of us tapi tak berkesempatan. Ada jek kerja atau benda menghalang. Insya-Allah tajuk nih akan dihabiskan jua walau macam mana pon….

2002 – Multimedia University, Cyberjaya, Selangor Darul Ehsan

Masa tuh me amatlah active dalam aktivti berforum dan juga berweb server nih. Masa tuh kat MMU kiteorg maner ader entertaiment lain. Nak harap bilik tv…haram… sebab apa kena berebut rancangan n selalunyer dimonopoli oleh budak-budak amoi or senior. So jalan paling senang kietrog download citer, tv series, anime or other rancangan berbentuk hiburan utk tatapan sendiri. Then the demand for tv series n anime pon melonjak. Maka muncul lah webmasters dari pelbagai falkuti yang menawaarkan perkhidmatan download benda2 nih semua termasuk software utk warga MMU. Bak pepatah Inggeris cakap “Sharing is caring”. So masa tuh pulak forum dicussion pulak tengah hot. Bukan discuss pasal apa pon…cuma bertukar2 pendapat pasal anime n software. Then min tak tulun pet bro tulun ajarkan cara2 setupkan webserver. Berguru dalam seminggu, alhamdullilah dpt jugak siapkan satu webserver yang share anime, song, software n music video n satu lagi tambah perkhidmatan printing & burn cd. Sebab masa tuh siapa ader cd burner tuh kira jackpot lah. Kira taiko la jugak. Tapi kalu utk bebudak FCM, cd burner tuh is a must. Kalu tak mau pengsan dibuatnyer….

So, pada satu hari forum yang selalu disertai iaitu NEO PLAYGROUND pon buatlah gathering utk bebudak webserver. Masa tuh la nak tengok muka budak2 webserver master nih. ). Nak kata yang dtg semuanyer hencem….tuh tak der la kan…. but u can expect mostly nerdo… tapi ader gak yg jenis ganas sikit ). Dalam banyak2 saya sorang jek perempuan yang buat webserver masa tuh Nama webserver saya ialah Little Princess Webserver. Kenapa little princess walaupun saya bukanlah kecik orangnyer Sebab nama tuh amat sesuai dengan kelakuan saya. Princess kecik nih selalu nyer suka berdikari kan… samerlah seperti saya

Kawan yang selalu borak dalam forum tuh dtg lepak sekali. Lagi gamatlah dibuatnyer. Tokei Neo Playground Mus pulak sibuk nak tubuhkan persatuan webserver utk MMU. Sebab boleh dikatakan MMU ketika itu mempunyai lebey kurang 15 webserver power tidak termasuk MMU mlk or yang biasa2 nih. So, Mus rasa amat patutlah webserver nih didaftarkan sebagai persatuan rasmi disamping mengajar bebudak MMU mengenai IT. Tapi satu jer masalah, webserver MMU nih share benda yang kira illegal kat dunia luar spt music video, song n tv series. Anime tuh still boleh kompromi sebab ader yang free source.

So dijadikan cerita, pada gathering tuh jugaklah saya telah membuat temujanji dengan dua rakan webserver saya iaitu Zerafat n Sumomo Chan webserver aka Akmal aka hubby sekrang Dahlah saya dtg gathering terlewat setengah jam dengan muka basi sebab baru bangun tido….baju pon tak tuka ). Kata nerdo Rambut pon ala2 ikat biasa jek. Dtg2 duduk dengan muka tak bersalah. So after berdiscussion, majlis pon bersurai or dgn erti kata lain majlis suai kenal pon bermula. So, kenallah zerafat n akmal. Mula2 masa tgh dicussion tuh sekodeng gak mana satu sumomo chan nih. ). Tersalah orang rupanyer…..aku ingatkan zerafat tuh akmal…akmal tuh zerafat. Yerlah maner la tahu orang mauritious tuh putih2 belaka….ingatkan gelap Masa tuh akmal dtg dengan rambut afro dia n kulit gelap.

So, after suai kenal baru lah tahu yang akmal tuh yang rambut afro n zerafat tuh yang cerah…ekekekekeke So after bersurai… me balik ke bilik n start la download n chatting dgn kengkawan. Malam tuh me, zerafat n akmal pon berboraklah…mula2 ingat akmal dah tak nak layan budak sememeh nih.. Yerla buzz berkali tak jawab…kecik hati jugaklah kan. Rupa2nyer dia sambung borak kat bilik mus. Padanlah aku mesg buat bodo jek…

After dua hari selepas gathering, saya pon ajaklah dua orang mamat nih keluar ke kl. Teman amik gambar utk assignment. Masa tuh pon zerafat memang suka keluar kl so kenalah tuh. Akmal pulak ikut Zerafat jek.  So sepanjang perjalanan ke kl tuh, me n Zerafat borak ajer. Boleh dikatakan kiterorg berdua byk kongsi cerita daripada akmal. Akmal pulak jenis dengar cd lepas tuh ngorok dlm bas. Dua  tiga kali gak kiteorg keluar bertiga bersama… sampailah satu hari tuh kiteorg lawan status kat yahoo tapi guna bahasa lain. Mulakan tuh zerafat dengan akmal lah. Then me mesg akmal tanya apa mesg dia maksudkan. Dia kasi satu website nih yang boleh translatekan bahasa lain2 ke english. Apa lagi perang status lah.

Tetiba, Zerafat buat status yang paling kontroversi….iaitu Akmal fall in love with Lydia… mak ai tergamam beb masa tuh. Yerlah tak sangka benda tuh leh jadi mcm nih kan; Kiter kan friend jek. Kalu diikutkan…me suka lagi Zerafat daripada Akmal.  Zerafat lagi happy go lucky. Mamat nih serius semacam. So me mesg Zerafat personally, tanya apa maksud zerafat buat status mcm tuh. Zerafat kata, Akmal pernah ckp dengan dia yang Akmal sukakan saya…alamak. Suka mcm mana tuh tak tahulah kan. So, saya pon  buatlah status kata “Kalu suka apalagi bagitahu lah betul2″ Akmal pulak jawab “So…kira jadilah nih” terus saya tergamam n masuk tido…. Blushing dibuatnyer dengan mamat dua ekor nih.

Keesokkan harinya, saya mesg Akmal utk tanya dia betul ker apa yang dia maksudkan tuh tapi mamat nih pulak tak ader. Dia pergi conference dengan MUS utk IT. MMu banyak buat conference utk student2 dia dlm bidang networking n IT. Punyalah buzz dalam dua jam baru dia jawab. Tanya dia betul ker dia suka kat saya. Masa tuh tak der la tak available cuma tgh jadi part time lover dengan senior :”> So dia pon kata memang dah lama suka dah. Suka cara pergaulan semua n kalu boleh apa salahnyer kiter teruskan lebey dari kawan. Tergamam sekejap…Masa tuh roomate aka best fren ader dlm bilik. Siap suruh dia baca sekali… ekekekeke Borak2 nyer borak….me ajak dia jumpa. Then kiteorg pon jumpa n dia bawak jejalan ke tasik MMU. Tasik busuk tuh jugak jadi tmpt mencurah perasaan kiteorg ). So pergilah kat tasik mmu ni sambil berborak. Then kat depan tasik tuh Akmal pon meluahkan rasa hatinya utk berkapel… Saya pon minat jugak dgn dia sebab dia nih jenis misteri..so adventure sikit kalu kapel ). So, I just say yes. Tak sangka pulak kapel punya kapel….sampai 6 tahun kiteorg bercinta. Masa mula2 masing ingat boleh bertahan 6 bulan jek. Sebab selama nih pon saya dengan bf yang lain paling lama 4 bulan jek. Bukan kata player….sebab saya langsung tak lawa…badan jenis hcubby semua maner org nak…cinta tuh budak lelaki hanya suka2 jek.

Cuma dengan akmal nih tahan lama sebab dia seorang yang caring, memahami, menolong, sayang saya sepenuh hatinya n dialah segalanya buat saya (kawan, sahbat n teman). Boleh dikatakan aktiviti kieorg di MMU buat samer2…tak leh pernah kiteorg buat hal sendiri2. Dia manjakan saya n terlalu menyayangi saya. Kalu saya malas nak beli mkn malam, dia akan jalan dari HB1 ke HB4 or HB3 just utk belikan makan utk saya dan naik semula tingkat 5 ke bilik dia. Setiap weekend dia dtg rumah, tulun saya angkat baju kotor, jaga nenek n atuk n kerja2 kat rumah nih. Mcm mana tak sayang dia sepenuh hati…sebab tak der lelaki yang sangat buat keje mcm tuh tau. Dia tak kisah tgk muka saya mcm hantu pontianak ker atau apapun.

Bisnes printing mula meletup2 sampai majalah MMU nak temuramah atas kejayaan saya dan tak pernah Akmal ckp yang dia dah bosan dengan saya sebab saya asyik suruh beli makanan atau pergi lowyat beli ink or hantar printing ke orang. Itulah pengorbanan dia terlalu besar utk saya. Tak der dia menolong saya waktu MMU, takkan saya abis ijazah dengan cemerlang…

2006- Crown Princess Kuala Lumpur

Masa tuh baru abis grad. Tak tahu nak carik keje apa. Sebab dah apply semua design company tapi satu pon tak der yang balas sebab masa tuh advertising nyer permintaan dah menurun sikit. So, mintak tulun uncle ipar utk dptkan keje sebagai reservation kat Crown Princess Kuala Lumpur. Gaji dalam seribu lebey. Bolehlah. Pergi keje naik lrt, makan hotel tanggung. Duit bulat2 masuk poket kan. Dari kengkawan yang lain keje sampai kul 4 pagie. Gaji samer jek.

Akmal lepas grad terus carik keje kat Low Yat sebab sale assistant. Gaji dalam RM1500 to RM1700. Boleh dikatakan byk jugaklah. Dia banyak gak support duit beli handbag semua. Masa tuh tak der komitment nak kawen. Dah empat bulan keje kat low yat, Mus dptkan dia keje sebagai IT assistant kat Cyberview Lodge Resort n Spa sebab Mus dpt offer kat tmpt lain n dia nak Akmal gantikan tmpt dia. So, Akmal pergi interview….alhamdullilah rezeki dia terus dpt keje. Wlaupun designation tulis IT assistant tapi tanggungjawab Akmal mcm IT Manager. Sebab IT department tuh dia yang kongker. So kekallah dia sebab IT assistant aka IT Manager dengan gaji starting RM1800. So dah nak masuk 3 tahun dia keje kat sana n dua kali dpt manager of the quater n sekarang dah naik pangkat jadi Corporate IT Manager n kawal a few hotel under him. Nih rezeki kawen n rezeki anak nih.

So, after dia dah stabil dalam setahun lebey keje, dia pon proposed utk kawen. Masa tuh jugak, I just lost my beloved grandma (Al-fathihah) n dia selalu tido di rumah teman my arwah datuk. So takut jiran2 ckp apa2 kiteorg pon decide utk tied the knot after 6 years bercinta. So, Januari 2008 we had grand, lovely n memorable wedding. Malah wedding kiteorg masuk a few majalah seperti Ratu Sehari n etc.

Actually byk yg jangka n tidak menjangka kan yang kiteorg akan berkahwin. My former boss masa pratikal siap mendoakan yang kiteorg takkan berkahwin but we had proved to her that our love is strong! Ader ker mendoakan benda yg tak baik nih. Kengkawan kiteorg byk gak yg mengutuk masa kiteorg bercinta di MMU dulu. Ader kengkawan sampai ckp…Akmal terpikat kat lydia bukan sebab muka tapi sebab duit. I know at that time, kalu pakai kereta…. u anak somebody. Tapi me kenal akmal sebelum dpt kereta lagi. Kiteorg bercinta siap naik bas hokeh.

Tapi apa2pon kiteorg dah berjaya mengharungi semua ranjau n cobaan n now kiteorg telah dikurniakan seorang putera yang comel lagi tembam….bernama Baby Muhammad Rayyan Harris bin Akmal. Lambang cinta kiteorg selama 6 tahun dan berkahwin selama 10 bulan (masa mengandungkan baby rayyan). Orang kata bercinta lama2 nih tak baik tapi kalu niat ikhlas Allah pon tahu.

Neither of us expect that we would be this for so long. We tot of having couple of month or at most for 1 year. But, things were not as our plan right…so let the thing flow. Jgn mengharap sangat dlm perhubungan. That is what my father always remind us. My father jenis yang tak suka tgk anak perempuan dia tangkat cintan sangat. Dia lebey suka kalu anak perempuan dia kawen umo 30 atau tak yah kawen langsung sebab dia kata dia masih kuat utk sara anak2 dia. Dia anggap anak perempuan dia masih umo 18. Tapi kalu anak lelaki dia suruh cepat2 keluar rumah ).

Sedar tak sedar…dah masuk bulan Ramadhan. Isk isk cepatnyer masa berlalu. Terasa mcm baru beberapa bulan jek sambut Hari Raya…. Baby Rayyan pon dah nak masuk tiga bulan dah. Sekarang nih Baby Rayyan banyak buat bunyi n cakap. Dok ajar dia immitate bunyi burung, anjing n kucing.

Rasanyer baby-baby sekarang nih genius daripada generasi kita dulu. Generasi kiter dulu, kalu umo dua bulan mana nak petah buat bunyi dengan bercakap. Baby sekarang siap pandai agah. Oh ya, Baby Rayyan suka berdiri n duduk. Tak suka baring jek. Cepat bosan mamat nih. Penat jugaklah nak mengangkat 6kg nyer Baby. Belum masuk tiga bulan lagi…entah2 8kg pon mau cecah.

Baru-baru nih Baby Rayyan kena jangkit batuk n selesema dari kiteorg the whole family. Mula2 Tok Babah dia batuk…lepas dua tiga hari, me pulak then terus jangkit ke Baby Rayyan. Seksa jugaklah kiteorg. Kecian kat Baby Rayyan, tak pasal-pasal selama dua minggu ulang alik Tawakal Hospital utk checkup. Bukan apa, dengan epidemic H1N1 nih susah nak cakap. Wad hospital penuh dengan org yang suspected H1N1 n babies serta toodlers kena batuk berkahak. Baby Rayyan kena nemobilizer untuk 4 hari berturut-turut. Hari ketiga kena masuk tiub dalam mulut untuk sedut kahak dalam paru-paru. Ya Allah, nak pengsan dibuatnyer. Nasib baik hari ketiga belas, nasib baik doktor kata tak yah datang hospital dah. Cuma makan ubat batuk n progressic syrup jek.

Mama....Me Feel Sick...

Cian Baby Rayyan

This Ramadhan will be our special Ramadhan coz Baby Rayyan is celebrating it with us. Duit Raya pon masyuklah ek ekekekekek…. apa2pun kami sekeluarga mengucapkan Selamat Berpuasa n Maaf Zahir Batin.

Baby Rayyan Invitation Card

 18hb Julai 2009 is the date Baby Rayyan had his cukur jambul n aqiqah for the very first time. We had this one lovely baby goat for Baby Rayyan n plan to had another one for his first year birthday. In Islam, we been suggested to have 2 goat for bay boy n 1 goat for baby girl and the aqiqah need to be done before the baby turn mature (akil baligh). The aqiqah n cukur jambul is not necessarily to be done. The both event is consider to announce that the couple had receive their child n care to share with families n friends. The aqiqah is to show how grateful of us towards God gift and the meat will be cooked deliciously n gave to guest who attended.

As for us, Baby Rayyan will be the first baby in both of the families. So the celebration from my family is a must. The most happiest people in the world is my parents. Their first grandson n will be their company whenever they go out. As for me n hubby, this is the symbol of love from both of us. We been know each other since 2002 n get married on 2008 n God had given us precious gift on 2009.

The morning of 18 Julai 2009 was bright n sunny. We had our last preparation of Baby Rayyan door gift to the guest n Marhaban Group. We had aromatheraphy perfume given to women n blue memopad to men. Lovely printed Baby Rayyan’s Aqiqah & Cukur Jambul Event. Even in Islam, we are been suggested to give either things that goes with nice to smell or something good to eat. At first we tot of having Madu as our doorgift but its hard to get Madu in a jar that we wanted n also perfume from Saudi Arabia. Perfect for our first son but the manufacturer need at least 2 weeks to settle our order n time to send to Malaysia. Seriously the bottle perfume gorgeous. May be I can do for Rayyan 1st Birthday.

At 12 the caterer n the canopy people came n start to decorated our house. We had 6 canopy line up n my mom ordered nasi beriyani kambing & ayam. Delicious. It is the same caterer as our wedding. The food fantastic. I can smell the briyani from inside the house. The buffet was setup beautiful at our car porch with flowers n lots of balloons!!! At 1 the balloons people from Party House came n setup the deco inside the house. We had the pelamin for Baby Rayyan cradle n staircase decorated a night before.  At this particular time, we planned to had lots n lots of balloons inside the house as Baby Boy celebration.

Baby Rayyan Fantasy World

Balloons Everywhere

See I told u Balloons everywhere....

 Total of 1000 balloons had decorated inside the house n its feel like having a fantasy world on that day. The smell of yoke charm n jasmine bring out the memory of my solemization n wedding day. It feel just like me n Akmal having our solemization day. I stare happily with tears rolling out from my eyes. In this one year plus many things had happen, good n bad things n I grateful to God that I still live with people around me cherish n love me day by day.

Me n Akmal get on to our dress. Akmal with his cream baju melayu, recently make to measure from SparksMen shop in pavillion, Kuala Lumpur n me with my cream lace baju kurung. Baby Rayyan was wearing handsomely his Tok Mama long dress knitting special for the day. Me n my mom had done our makeup with my previous make up person, Herryanto. We had great time with him n we like to have him around our family whenever we need people to make up us. He done terrific job on me n my mom.

 At 3pm, the Marhaban group member come with 33 member altogether n start the event with Doa Selamat & Tahlil for our late grandparents & the people had passed long time ago. While having Tahlil in our house, I was thinking could it be better if both my grandparents be here holding Rayyan in their arms. I was been raised by my grandparents becoz I’m the eldest. So, I’m more close to them rather than my prents. But don’t u guys ever thinks that I don’t have any love or respect to my parents. If my parents not here with me, support me n guide me….I don’t think so I could ever life as strong as this.

They are singing Berendoi Song...

My Tears almost fall down...

Guest started to show up, it fun to have all people that we known for years came to see Baby Rayyan. As for my mom friends, Baby Rayyan  consider as their grandson also. becoz most of them still have small child. If got same age with me, most probably single but not available . As to my friend, they will be Baby Rayyan godfather n mother. As for Kim & Lionel, Baby Rayyan is their little nephew.

I’m quite suprise for my cyber friend, elly. She n her husband came away from Shah Alam to Gombak just to meet n the famous Baby Rayyan ). Seriously, big thanks u guys! Hope our friendship last long!

My photographer, Linda Latip from Beautkids Photography arrived a bit late due to she stuck in the jam at Sungai Besi highway. It is the day that Manchaster vs Bukit Jalil team. It is a friendly match n everybody know that Bukit Jalil will have telur ayam & Manchaster will have thousand of score ). But she n her hubby amazingly took picture of Baby Rayyan n the event. Tengkiu very much Linda.

The Marhaban Group started their marhaban n berendoi. It was so lovely n sweet n touch many people heart including me n hubby. The poet arrange beautifully n its about how the baby will grow up to respect his father n mother n family that love him so much n deeply. How to be grateful to Allah when he grown up. Tears by tears fall from my eyes n to Baby Rayyan chubby check. I wish to have my nenek n datuk right now. Seriously. Words cannot express how miss I am towards them. I can even smell my nenek smell around me that day. May be she n datuk pay a visit to us n Baby Rayyan.

After marhaban n berendoi song, we had everybody including the Marhaban member cukur jambul Baby Rayyan. Yes, indeed Baby Rayyan have lots of hair n the best part he had long hair perfom jambul that need to be cut anyway. So the cukur jambul event in a way to trim Baby Rayyan jambul )

There Goes Baby Rayyan Jambul....

Good Boy Rayyan

Baby Rayyan very lucky Baby....he got ang pow from Marhaban Group

May Allah Bless this child with Lots of Love...Pray Tok Mama

The One & Only Baby in the Family

Draft after draft I try to type but words seem wrong from my point of view. I don;t know where to start. Too many stories about Baby Rayyan that I wanted to share. A page of blog does not seem enough for me to let it go. Let me start from the day Baby Rayyan had his first baby photoshot. It was done by Naomi, owner n photographer from Picture4keep. I know her from SNS (shoppingnsales) blog when we talked abt warehouse n she pernah give some comment at my blog long time ago.

The story begin with this, since my bro is leaving Malaysia n going back to London, we had our planned to have Baby Rayyan aqiqah & cukur jambul event on 11/08/09. But planned changed due to H1N1 epidemic had recently spread at Wangsa Maju near our house n we kinda worried. So the planned was postponed until the given date n the mean time I started to designing Baby Rayyan invitation card and also my very best friend Hasila thank you wedding card for 150 card. She going to be a wife on 17/07/09 n the reception on the 18/07/09. I’m glad for her n the husband becoz both are my friend. Technically, her husband is my hubby xroomate back in MMU n hasila in my friend since form 1. They had been together in love since year 2000. So almost 9 to 10 years they had been friends n lover.

Invitation card making process taking into place. Thank u to my third sister for contribute a lot of energy to help the cutting all the board. Just imagine she cut almost 30 board just to make the outside layer the invitation card. As for my mom a BIG THANK U for glueing, decorating n taking care her grandson.

Three of us happily ever after

Hurmmmm...... what is she doing

My Little Prince

Sleepy Baby Rayyan with Pacifier

Baby Rayyan After Bottle Feeding

Active Baby Rayyan

Babah, I want Mama....

Don't we look alike?

My Handsome Prince

Control Macho both heroes

Wah....Sayang Habis Nih

Pandang Aper tuh Rayyan...Tok Babah Sayang Tok Mama jer kerBaby Rayyan already pengsan keletihan

Handsome with Red Baby Gap Romper

Hurmmmm...that's me with tons of work to do....

Hooshhhhhh! A long deep breath coming out from my throat. 18/07/09 is the date that my mom pick up. 18/07/09 also is the date when my best friend Hasila (friends since high skool) get married to the guy she loves for 8 years. Huhuhuhuhuhuu………….. Many great things happen in 18/07/09, dont u think so.

At first the date was 25/07/09 but since my bro, boy eager to get back to London, the date was moved to 18/07/09 and I’m being the craziest person in the whole word when Baby Rayyan invitation card not yet done. A lot to be done from constructing basic card to his invitation layout. Now I’m working 3 times faster than any confinement mom would do.

Today, my mom ex workers came to our house for dicussing the construction of the pelamin for Baby Rayyan. It should be insteresting becoz our theme for this time would be arabian night. but the idea is not finalized yet depend on the time. As for me the event planner, me hooked up with invitation card. Hopefully by next week, everything would be fine n ok.

Now, I stressing in finding freelance photographer. Due to the date is pushed to 18/07 my selection of photographer cannot make it. A bit sad but life must go on.

For baby Rayyan invitation card, I’m still working on it. Will post the picture soon.  Now I have to continue cutting n glueing the card.

Untill we meet again

It’s 24/06/2009!!

A full moon for Baby Rayyan n a month of confinement period for me. Hooray! Another 14 days to go. After that let’s have some party!!!! hehehehehe cannot party also because need to slim down. Mama Rayyan also need to look gorgeous on Baby Rayyan Cukur Jambul & Aqiqah event.

On 25/06/09, Baby Rayyan had his first official day out for his monthly vaccination. Hepatitis B second jab. He is weighted 3.75kg by the doctor. For the past one month he actually gain weight about 700gram. No wonder he being so ‘berat’ to lifted right now. But nevermind, chubby baby also be a sweetheart to people.

Puhhh…its been a month me n hubby become real parents. As if real parent who take care of their baby, become restless thru out the night and become more cautious about baby development and the most drastic things happen is every 10 minute we both surf the net in understand more about how to take care baby n identified problem that the baby have.

From single person become lovers, then wife and husband, start new life as expecting parent and now real parent. Many changes had occur and this changes bring joy n happiness to both of us and our family. Baby Rayyan present in our life n family make the ties become stronger everyday. Baby Rayyan is the symbol of our love, our patience, our devotion and our vows for the past 6 years we been together.

For my family, Baby Rayyan present is a bless from heaven. After the death of my grandma and grandpa, we become a bit lonely. We don’t have someone or something to ties this relationship together. But with Baby Rayyan, my mom and dad had their new duty, my siblings they become responsible aunty n  uncle towards babies and for me n hubby we become more alert.

My dad begin to have new hobby, he built a swimming pool special for us to spend time with Baby Rayyan, renovate the house for Baby Rayyan new room and start to come back early from work just to spend with his grandson. My mom always tease him infornt of our family friends on how our father change by having Baby Rayyan in this family.

My wishes is to have  my late grandma n grandpa present at this time to share our happiness. I grew up with my grandma n grandpa around me and I treasure every single moments that I could spend with them. Even when they pass away, I always pray to God for single moments just bring back to live n talk to me or I wanted to join them. But reality is most important and now I have Baby Rayyan, every single moments I need to be with him, pampered him, shower him with love.

And by that I need to teach Baby Rayyan to apperciate every moments that he could spend with his grandparents. Because the moments you loose them, there is no u turn. For example, my niece Qaseh. She grew up without my grandparents. She lost the love that cherish among them with her sister Fatin. Yes is true that she still have parents but most of people would say, the love between parents and grandparents, grandparents love will be the greatest.

For this period of 30 days confinement, I learned many new things. Even though my c-section wound did not recover well as other people due to my diabetes problem but I’m grateful to God that I able to be at my son side whenever he needed me.

My gynae even mention to me at my 2nd visit after discharge that for all that I’ve been thru of back pain (I even paralyse for 6 month) and my diabetes, I’m able to deliver a healthy baby boy.

Here’s some picture of Baby Rayyan thru out his 1 week old to 1 month old.

Baby Rayyan 1st Day At Home - 29/05/09

Baby Rayyan 3rd Day at Home-31/05/09

Baby Rayyan 4th day at Home - 01/06/09Akmal trying to be the Next Malaysian Top Babah - 4th Day

Me during my confinement period with Baby RayyanBaby Rayyan with his eyes wide open

5th Day- Baby Rayyan having his Sun Bathing